I Couldn't...BecauseI Didn't !!!
Saturday, November 25, 2006
Is Love A Limit for Those Who Think Beyond Limits
Have you ever fallen in love??? ... It's a wonderful feeling .. isn't it !!!! After all we feel as if we have got whatever we ever wanted. We find all our dreams and our needs answered in the most beautiful set of three words ever formed--- I Love You.
Well there have been billions of people who have expressed their views on love... And every one knows what happens when we fall in love.
Lets take an altogether different path now...
Let me tell what not to do when you think you have fallen in love:
1. Never lose your sense of individuality...
Now what does that mean? Have you ever herad the story of the man who killed his golden-egg laying goose. If you have, then just add a simple contrast. Your individuality, your sense of being yourself is the golden-egg laying goose and when you stop being yourself, you kill the goose. When Alec Smart stops acting like Alec Smart and starts imitating John, the next door hero, just because 'she' likes it... he's lost the duration of his love affair by decades(if not years)
2. Stop Sacrificing Yourself Beyond Your Limits
Now you must have begun thinking that I am the villain of any beautiful love story. After what's wrong with sacrifice? But mark my words... "Beyond your limits"
Alas!!! Life is not a romantic movie where you go on sacrificing, shedding tears and showing silent gestures, and at last the one you love comes to "know" about your sacrifices ...and finally you win your love. Practically, life and love's all about playing your cards well. You need to show your sacrifices(though indirectly) and walk as a live billboard with your sacrifices written all over it. But, don't stretch yourself beyond your limits... because human beings are really cruel... they will remember your faults, but never your sacrifices.
3. Always Remain The Same Hi-Flier You Were Before "Falling" In Love
Haven't you heard of the story of a friend of your friend.... who was sooo good, so eligible, so talented and so ... whatever, who fell in love... and then failed... and is now not so good, not so eligible, not so talented and not so... whatever. Got the point!!! The problem was that this friend of your friend forgot to maintain his oh-so-good position once he fell in love. So if you are a good player, a good writer, good at studies, a good entertainer etc.... always remain one no matter who comes into your life. And even if you feel a bit depressed (if at all you lose) just be flexible enough to revert to your Hi-Flier Zone.
4.Never Forget Your Old Friends
Now that needs no explanation. Scuba divers never move far away from where they jump in. After all who will help them out. Love is the ocean. Period.
5. Add New Points To This Long List
Hey I am not a frustrated guy who has written all this about love. Love is now general knowledge. But you can always force your answers on anyone with your own arguments. So please argue. And don't forget to make this list longer.
"Better Safe Than Worry"
This article was written in a lighter mood. Don't panic... Love is wonderful.. if you are noy wonderfool!!!
Well there have been billions of people who have expressed their views on love... And every one knows what happens when we fall in love.
Lets take an altogether different path now...
Let me tell what not to do when you think you have fallen in love:
1. Never lose your sense of individuality...
Now what does that mean? Have you ever herad the story of the man who killed his golden-egg laying goose. If you have, then just add a simple contrast. Your individuality, your sense of being yourself is the golden-egg laying goose and when you stop being yourself, you kill the goose. When Alec Smart stops acting like Alec Smart and starts imitating John, the next door hero, just because 'she' likes it... he's lost the duration of his love affair by decades(if not years)
2. Stop Sacrificing Yourself Beyond Your Limits
Now you must have begun thinking that I am the villain of any beautiful love story. After what's wrong with sacrifice? But mark my words... "Beyond your limits"
Alas!!! Life is not a romantic movie where you go on sacrificing, shedding tears and showing silent gestures, and at last the one you love comes to "know" about your sacrifices ...and finally you win your love. Practically, life and love's all about playing your cards well. You need to show your sacrifices(though indirectly) and walk as a live billboard with your sacrifices written all over it. But, don't stretch yourself beyond your limits... because human beings are really cruel... they will remember your faults, but never your sacrifices.
3. Always Remain The Same Hi-Flier You Were Before "Falling" In Love
Haven't you heard of the story of a friend of your friend.... who was sooo good, so eligible, so talented and so ... whatever, who fell in love... and then failed... and is now not so good, not so eligible, not so talented and not so... whatever. Got the point!!! The problem was that this friend of your friend forgot to maintain his oh-so-good position once he fell in love. So if you are a good player, a good writer, good at studies, a good entertainer etc.... always remain one no matter who comes into your life. And even if you feel a bit depressed (if at all you lose) just be flexible enough to revert to your Hi-Flier Zone.
4.Never Forget Your Old Friends
Now that needs no explanation. Scuba divers never move far away from where they jump in. After all who will help them out. Love is the ocean. Period.
5. Add New Points To This Long List
Hey I am not a frustrated guy who has written all this about love. Love is now general knowledge. But you can always force your answers on anyone with your own arguments. So please argue. And don't forget to make this list longer.
"Better Safe Than Worry"
This article was written in a lighter mood. Don't panic... Love is wonderful.. if you are noy wonderfool!!!
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